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THE TEEN FILES . . . A MUST SEE . . .

Posted: under Parenting.
Tags: Add new tag, bully, freedom writers, Parenting, powerful, school, son's, sorry

As I watched this video, the hairs on my arms stood up.  I’m such a sucker for the power of kindness.

This is what we need to be doing more in our schools.

My two boys just went through a bullying workshop at school and by the end they felt drained and exhausted as though nothing was really being accomplished, but a lesson was being taught.

One of our family’s favorite movies is FREEDOM WRITERS,  which every family should see.   As many times we have seen this film, we all end up crying. 

The lesson is deep and strong, so very POWERFUL . . .

What I love about this TEEN FILES video: one of the parents present, a mother who was in a position of power as the assistant principle of the high school, spoke these words to her son: ”I’m sorry, too.”  

This . . . is . . . truly POWERFUL!

Ciao for now,

Deana

Comments (0) Mar 31 2009

BUT DID I HAVE A GOOD TRIP . . . THEY ASK?

Posted: under Parenting.
Tags: germany, salzberg

YES, I DID . . .

Sorry if I left all you hanging . . . I had the most amazing trip.  And I plan to take the children back this summer (Munich, Salzberg and on into Italy).

MaryDawn and I are closer than ever. We have shared something together that most people haven’t experienced in a lifetime . . . and still came out laughing. 

We are now planning our next trip!

If you would like to join us, let me know.

But you must come with an open heart and ready to follow the wind.

Ciao for now,

Deana

Comments (0) Mar 29 2009

IF I CAN DREAM — Elvis Presley and Celine Dion

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2 stars from 2 different eras.

2 stars whose dreams came true.

A song about following your dreams, no matter what.

2 people who came from the depths of poverty to become stars that will forever shine on all of us.

It’s never too early or too late for children of all ages to follow their dreams.

“Dreams really DO come true.”

Ciao for now,

Deana

Comments (0) Mar 25 2009

HURTING PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE . . .

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How simple is this message?  How complex?

So Simple . . . HURTING PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE . . .

So . . . can you forgive those who have hurt you, knowing this?

I CAN!!!

Look at the definition below…

How does this truly affect you?

Hurt 
verb ( past and past part. hurt ) [ trans. ]
cause physical pain or injury to : Ow! You’re hurting me! |
[ intrans. ] does acupuncture hurt?
• [ intrans. ] (of a part of the body) suffer pain : my back hurts.
• cause mental pain or distress to (a person or their feelings) : she didn’t want to hurt his feelings.
• [ intrans. ] (of a person) feel mental pain or distress : he was hurting badly, but he smiled through his tears.
• be detrimental to : high interest rates are hurting the local economy.
• [ intrans. ] (hurt for) informal — have a pressing need for: Frank wasn’t hurting for money.
noun
physical injury; harm.
• mental pain or distress : the hurt of being constantly ignored | wariness that masked a hurt.
ORIGIN Middle English (originally in the senses [to strike] and [a blow] ): from Old French hurter (verb), hurt (noun), perhaps ultimately of Germanic origin.

This is why we must be with eyes wide open on the internet with our children . . . because . . .

HURTING PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE . . .

Let’s join together to protect our CHILDREN . . .

Ciao for now,

Deana

Comments (0) Mar 24 2009

The Highlight of My Trip? The Answer . . .

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Chandler asked, “Mom what was the highlight of your trip?”

“THE SAFE LANDING IN MONTROSE!!” I replied . . .

After a trip during which everything that could go wrong, did.

A true test to traveling with a friend?  Will this friendship last? From our luggage not arriving in Munich to luggage being stolen, to missing our flight coming home from Munich . . . But wait, there’s more . . . LOL!

We arrive in Chicago and must spend the night, then catch a plane to Montrose on the next morning.  We wake up, determined not to miss this flight and are very excited, no, let’s say, more like THRILLED to return home, I to my children and Mary Dawn to her mate and two dogs, Smokey and Valentino (well, let’s not forget my two chihuahuas, Lola and Bella — musn’t leave anyone out).

We have plenty of time at the airport to grab breakfast. We order at the counter and I notice everyone is drinking shots and beers at 9:30 am. This alone makes me want to throw up. Mary Dawn and I are laughing, watching this go on and on.  Then, this very attractive woman in her early 20’s approaches the bar and orders a shot of whiskey with a Coke on the side — my mouth wide open with shock! She shoots this, obviously not her first time . . . everyone at the bar shaking their heads. (Even the men who were drinking are taken aback.)  Now she announces, “I’m ready to fly!”  I start to laugh out loud and, of course, Mary Dawn and I make some friends at the counter. We now have something in common with everyone sitting there waiting for a flight. This women returns to the bar many times for more drinks, and finally announces that she’s been drinking since 4:00 AM and HATES to fly. She also yells: “Telluride is the place to be!”

Oh, gosh . . . is she . . . could she . . . possibly be on the same flight as ours?

We have fun conversations with strangers, but feel at home.

Time to catch the plane.

So we get on the plane, Mary Dawn in the front and I second seat from the back.  This is a very small plane and who gets on the plane last and sits down across the aisle from me? “Lady Drenched in Whiskey” not the  “Lady in Red”.

Her panic begins, but I’m able to ignore her.

It’s a 3-hour flight, and we begin our descent into Montrose, over the beautiful Rocky Mountains.

Everything feels perfect. We now see the runway and expect the normal procedure: flaps to set down, along with the wheels.

When then what happens?  We head straight back up to the sky, and I mean straight back up, as in a vertical line. Now, sitting in the back, I lift my you-know-what, thinking that it’s going to hit the  ground. LOL!

Everyone’s eyes now are wide open, and I begin to giggle (this is what I do when I’m nervous).

The women across the aisle starts to panic, and I mean panic.

We make an immediate right turn, and all of us on the left side are hanging onto the seat in front of us. Then we plunge to the left and turn sharply.  I begin to pray . . .

It takes about 45 minutes to make a second landing attempt, luggage falling . . . stuff everywhere.

On the second attempt, we land . . . safely, smoothly.

Everyone takes a deep breath of relief.  The pilot comes on the intercom to notify us and to apologize for the difficulty, but they had a warning sign on the control panel: “Flaps won’t drop.”

When telling this story to the boys. Chandler said, “I bet you were praying to God not to let the plane crash.“ I replied, “Actually not. I was praying for God to forgive me of all my sins, to take me straight to heaven and, of course, to take care of my children . . . to give them a good life.”

These were my last words.

WE ALL LAUGHED, so grateful that Mommy was home . . .

Ciao for now,

Deana

Comments (0) Mar 20 2009

HAPPY ST. PATRICK’S DAY!!!!

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Hello, Everyone!

Be safe, Today and Tonight, as you participate in the festivities of the Irish.

Let’s remember, we teach our children by example and not so much by our words.

On a day like today,  with all the celebrating going on . . . we teach our children boundaries.

Remember that the eyes of all the little “Leprechauns and Fairies”  are on you . . . 

WHAT WILL THEY SEE?

“THE WEARING OF THE GREEN” originally meant to display a Shamrock on one’s clothing.  According to legend, St. Patrick used the symbol of the shamrock, a three-leaved plant, to explain the Holy Trinity to the pre-Christian Irish.

Cheers,

Deana

Comments (0) Mar 17 2009

Welcome HOME, MOMMA…

Posted: under Parenting.
Tags: Germany Austria, mom, Mozartt, orange, Parenting, there is no place like home, welcome home

Both Chandler and Preston ran through the house . . . “MOM, MOM! . . . Welcome Home!!”  Arms spread out wide.
Thank you, God, I thought, for these two precious boys of mine!

Preston was so excited! He had brought me a homecoming present that he so wanted to give to me right away.  I’m exhausted, having just arrived moments before them, and was greeted by my two dogs . . . Lola and Bella. Not a moment to breathe.
Preston grabbed my hand and walked me, with great anticipation, to the lower level of the house. “Close your eyes, Mom,” he said. Then he placed a pair of ORANGE Kanye West glasses on my face. I opened my eyes and, through the horizontal strips of light and darkness, I saw both Chandler and Preston smiling and laughing at what must have been me . . . behind bars . . . LOL!  Their “rap star” MOM . . . LOL!
Preston needed to tell me how hard he had looked for these glasses for me, then how the shopkeeper found them in the back room . . . “They must be ORANGE,” he said .  .  .

me laughing . . . Chandler laughing . . . I was now HOME . . .

Chandler asked, “What was the highlight of your trip, Mom?”
[ I will Blog on this very soon, my answer . . . ]

So, naturally, I had to go find the little treasures that I brought back for them: Mozart Chocolate, Haribo Candies (that my children adore), baseball caps giving tribute to Austria, hand-knit winter hats, and, of course, the traditional handmade wool hats, with carefully selected pins and feathers to adorn them, a Sound of Music CD, and a Travel Through Salzburg CD.

The boys were so excited and immediately placed on top of their freshly cut hair their “Sound of Music” wool hats . . . How cute were they?? Preston said, “Look, Mommy! I’m a little Austria boy,” and began to dance.

The night continued on with wonderful story-telling, just as I remember as a child.

Chandler updating me on every sport stat, what games are now of extreme importance, the Redwings’ last games, where we now sit in the league. Questions of curiosity flowing from his soul about my trip . . . He loves the little bit of German I learned.

Preston now begins to work on his science project . . . I am, by the way, so impressed!

I check my e-mails and receive so many wonderful WELCOME HOME notes, but the most important was from my precious Savannah, “I Love You Momma and miss you. Hope your trip was wonderful. I wish I had been with you!  I’m on my way to Costa Rica with Grandma. Call you when I arrive.” 

This was the first time I had ever left the country without my children. As wonderful as this trip was,

I learned there truly is . . . “NO PLACE LIKE HOME“. . .

Ciao for Now,

Deana

Comments (0) Mar 13 2009

There’s No Place Like Home….

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Tags: Add new tag

My PLANE Came Close to a Crash TODAY…There IS NO PLACE like HOME….

Comments (0) Mar 11 2009

I’M Leaving On A Jet plane…

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Off to Germany and Austria..Home of Mozart and Sound of  Music….

When I return home, Kidz-tube will be off and running…

Ciao for Now,

Deana

Comments (0) Mar 02 2009

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